Samson starts out (vv. 1-2) spending the night with a zonah, with a harlot. Except that, true to his nature (he can’t seem to connect with women in a sustained way), he jumps up in the middle of the night (v3), grabs the doorposts of the Philistine city, and carries them 35 miles up the mountain to Hebron. Score one for Samson as he shames the Philistines who were plotting against him. From here it is all down hill.
Samson loves Delilah (v 4) – the only women he loves. It’s not clear if Delilah is Philistine or not, but her Philistine friends lean on her to help them capture Samson. They want to degrade him (afflict him – also “make him helpless” – not a good translation). The verb used here (v 5 and 6) is ahnah (‘nh) [there is another ‘nh meaning answer]. We see the same verb used in Jud 16:19, as well as Gen 16.6 (Hagar) Gen 34.2 (Dinah), Jud 19.24 (wife and daughter), Jud 20.5 (Levite’s pilgesh).
Q: Why does Samson attract women who get him into trouble?